A terminal cancer patient with weeks to live has fulfilled his dying wish of marrying his 'rock'

A terminal cancer patient who hosted his own wake has fulfilled his dying wish of marrying his "rock".
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Factory supervisor Chris Clark, who has just weeks to live, held his "awake wake" so he could say a proper goodbye to his loved ones and friends.

During the emotional gathering at the Lord Nelson pub in Jarrow, more than £7,000 was raised, through raffles and donations, for Cancer Connections, who have supported the 43-year-old through his devastating plight.

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Just days after the inspirational event, brave Chris has now married his girlfriend Claire, 46, at a beautiful but heartbreaking ceremony on Tuesday.

Terminal cancer patient Chris Clark, 43, who hosted his own wake last month to say goodbye to friends and family, and has now fulfilled his dying wish by marrying his "rock", partner Claire, 46, in a registry office ceremony in South Shields.Terminal cancer patient Chris Clark, 43, who hosted his own wake last month to say goodbye to friends and family, and has now fulfilled his dying wish by marrying his "rock", partner Claire, 46, in a registry office ceremony in South Shields.
Terminal cancer patient Chris Clark, 43, who hosted his own wake last month to say goodbye to friends and family, and has now fulfilled his dying wish by marrying his "rock", partner Claire, 46, in a registry office ceremony in South Shields.

Chris and Claire had their first dance as a married couple to 'A thousand years" by Christina Perri and were captured on video in a deep and loving embrace while a slideshow of pictures of the couple in happy times played behind them.

They were supported by tearful family and friends, who have come to call Chris "Braveheart" as a result of his courage throughout his illness, during which he has fought multiple episodes of deadly sepsis.

Claire, from Sunderland, has now expressed her pride in her new husband.

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She said: "It was an amazing and emotional day with our loved ones, who laughed and cried with us.

Terminal cancer patient Chris Clark, 43, who hosted his own wake last month to say goodbye to friends and family, and has now fulfilled his dying wish by marrying his "rock", partner Claire, 46, in a registry office ceremony in South Shields.Terminal cancer patient Chris Clark, 43, who hosted his own wake last month to say goodbye to friends and family, and has now fulfilled his dying wish by marrying his "rock", partner Claire, 46, in a registry office ceremony in South Shields.
Terminal cancer patient Chris Clark, 43, who hosted his own wake last month to say goodbye to friends and family, and has now fulfilled his dying wish by marrying his "rock", partner Claire, 46, in a registry office ceremony in South Shields.

"We were married at South Shields registry office and then went to the Hedworth Hall for the meal and party.

"I am so proud of Chris, it was an emotional and exhausting day and were were there into the early evening, we left at around 8.30pm.

"We cant thank everyone enough for their love and support.

"Our wedding day was organised at such short notice and we would like to thank Deborah Roberts from Cancer Connections and Lisa Nightingale from the Hedworth Hall, among many, many other people, who helped organise such a perfect day for us both.

Terminal cancer patient Chris Clark, 43, who hosted his own wake last month to say goodbye to friends and family, and has now fulfilled his dying wish by marrying his "rock", partner Claire, 46, in a registry office ceremony in South Shields.Terminal cancer patient Chris Clark, 43, who hosted his own wake last month to say goodbye to friends and family, and has now fulfilled his dying wish by marrying his "rock", partner Claire, 46, in a registry office ceremony in South Shields.
Terminal cancer patient Chris Clark, 43, who hosted his own wake last month to say goodbye to friends and family, and has now fulfilled his dying wish by marrying his "rock", partner Claire, 46, in a registry office ceremony in South Shields.
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"We can't thank everyone enough for sharing our special day with us and celebrating our love in the way we wanted."

“Behind every good man is a good woman”

Chris, from Hebburn, who walked up the aisle to the theme tune from Braveheart the movie to wait for his bride, paid an emotional tribute to his new wife and called her "stunning, my rock".

He added: "Behind every good man is a good woman. Claire exceeds all expectations.

Terminal cancer patient Chris Clark, 43, who hosted his own wake last month to say goodbye to friends and family, and has now fulfilled his dying wish by marrying his "rock", partner Claire, 46, in a registry office ceremony in South Shields.Terminal cancer patient Chris Clark, 43, who hosted his own wake last month to say goodbye to friends and family, and has now fulfilled his dying wish by marrying his "rock", partner Claire, 46, in a registry office ceremony in South Shields.
Terminal cancer patient Chris Clark, 43, who hosted his own wake last month to say goodbye to friends and family, and has now fulfilled his dying wish by marrying his "rock", partner Claire, 46, in a registry office ceremony in South Shields.

"To do what she has done and put up with me for the past year, she deserves an award. Love you Claire."

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Chris came up with the idea of attending his own wake after he was told he had just a matter of weeks to live.

He said: "I started thinking why should I be dead for my wake and not see people.

"People would come who I haven’t seen for years, so why shouldn't I get to see them?

"The people I love, my friends and family, would all be together and I would actually be there to say goodbye.

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"I don't want people grieving, those close to me have gone through every step with me since my diagnosis and the wake has given them something to focus on as well."

Terminal cancer patient Chris Clark, 43, who hosted his own wake last month to say goodbye to friends and family, and has now fulfilled his dying wish by marrying his "rock", partner Claire, 46, in a registry office ceremony in South Shields.Terminal cancer patient Chris Clark, 43, who hosted his own wake last month to say goodbye to friends and family, and has now fulfilled his dying wish by marrying his "rock", partner Claire, 46, in a registry office ceremony in South Shields.
Terminal cancer patient Chris Clark, 43, who hosted his own wake last month to say goodbye to friends and family, and has now fulfilled his dying wish by marrying his "rock", partner Claire, 46, in a registry office ceremony in South Shields.

Chris, who works for UTS Engineering Company in Jarrow said friends and former colleagues will be travelled from across the U.K. and abroad for his wake.

The factory supervisor, whose family say has the "heart and strength of a lion" has a history of Crohn's Disease and his primary cancer diagnosis was of the bowel.

Chris added: "Claire's my rock who puts up with my mood swings. I'd be lost without her.

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"People have been so generous to me since my diagnosis, friends, family and my employers have helped non stop and there was a fundraiser to help me still enjoy life after I was diagnosed.

"Cancer Connections has been a lifeline, they help with counselling, money advice, basically anything you need.

"The Macmillan nurses have also been outstanding.

"I want to urge people to get checked. If you have any symptoms of anything at all then get help straight away, whether it’s physical health or mental health, don't just leave it to chance, get it checked out."

Chris raised money for Cancer Connections at the wake and donations can be made at his Just Giving page www.justgiving.com/fundraising/ChrisClark04

Poem on Chris’ journey

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During his hospital stays, Chris has penned poetry about his journey.He has agreed to share one of his poems:"Gently as the wind caresses the sea,I watch aimlessly as the waves progress.Wind blowing on a solitary tree, branches breaking leaves a mess.I sit in comfort in my car, anguish, anger thoughts afar.Why is life so unfair?I love my life I duely care.No second chance or any respite, just hanging on tight preparing to fight.A glimmer of hope or a change in luck, is my body up for this ruck?Aspirations and dreams amiss, praying for change that would be bliss.Raw emotion and hurt is deep, head’s a rollercoaster I pray for sleep.Silent thoughts I'm so confused,Cancer's laughing it's so amused.Another victim I'll become,I'l gain my wings and join my mum....Days or weeks time will tell,I've went through an emotional hell.I'm dreading death and my fatal breath.My love, my family my friends I will leave,Please celebrate my life and do not grieve!!!!!"